Approach Anxiety = Inferiority Complex + Shame in dating. Most men have trouble talking to and taking initiative with women. Why? A) Men are trained to put women on a pedestal. So no matter if the guy went to war, built an empire, cured cancer, when he talks to a woman, he feels he's talking to his superior. He has to impress a judge. B) Men are trained to be ashamed of their sexual desires. Expressing interest while hiding arousal is awkward.

So there you go. Approach anxiety = inferiority complex + shame. To solve this, destroy the pedestal, go up in the social ladder, embrace yourself and your desires fully, and you're golden. You're welcome. Women like men who dont put them on a pedestal, men who're confident, know what they want, are not ashamed. Replace pedestal with equality, shame with ownership. Dating flows naturally from confidence.

Dont pay too much attention to the girl on the video since she's talking from the pedestal. It's interesting that in comparison, women are trained that they should be put on a pedestal, and to take care of their "apparent" sexual desire, to look more slutty or more chaste. I dont think I have heard a "woman, you should be ashamed of your sexual desires." Acting on those, yes. But the desires themselves? Why the double standard in dating society?

Mental replace her saying "approaching us" with "showing us your cock", it makes for a fun watch. Women own desires openly; men repress. Embrace yours fully for dating freedom. Destroy inferiority by rising value. Shed shame by owning sexuality. Approach anxiety vanishes. Women respond to unapologetic men. Pedestal gone, equality reigns. Confidence attracts. Your desires are power, not weakness. Use them boldly in relationships.